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I know
exactly how you feel! So often our children are convinced,
and end up convincing us, that the only thing that interests
them is Nintendo, game boy or computer games... Don't believe
them!!
Because
our kids are still developing, parents need to provide games
, toys and books that help children in 4 critical areas
of learning - physically,mentally, socially & creatively.
Once a child enters the school age years, they become
more independent and develop more individualized preferences;
one child loves horses and another is fascinated by outer space. It
is important to keep these interests in mind when choosing
toys. Try to match the game with your child's interests
but remember that the entire world can be your child's classroom.
Sports help develop a child's large muscles as well as important
social skills; math can be explored in the sandbox by measuring,
pouring, and building; board games help foster family togetherness,
create lines for communication & observation and give
children a chance to practice cooperation & sportsmanship
while building their strategic, logical, & creative
thinking skills; construction toys are a great way to improve
their creative thinking and problem solving skills.
Try to set aside time to play with your child. Try board
games (of his level), building toys, or an imaginary game
(convert the underneath of the kitchen table into a cave
by throwing a blanket over it).
Do limit
the amount of electronic games he plays - they can be great
teachers of eye hand coordination & problem solving
but do very little to help develop social skills & foster
creative thinking which will be vital for his future development.
Set ground rules in terms of when you will allow him to
play them, and give him specific suggestions of other toys/games
he can play with at all other times. You can
make a rule that if he complains of being bored,
he will loose electronic privileges. It may sound sad, but
we have come to a point where we need to teach our children
how to play!
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